These people have the ability to use their strongest sexual organ, the brain, to bring them pleasure.Īnd while I do believe I am not one of those people, you may very well be one without even realizing it. Want to Orgasm in Public or Private, without Genital Stimulation? Here’s How…Īs already established, some individuals are able to climax without physically touching themselves. The former could result in one disassociating themselves and disconnecting from their body in order to inhibit feelings of involuntary and pleasurable responses. Not only that, but if one had grown up in a home that lacked positive reinforcement and love, it may trigger a defense mode when they are exposed to positive or pleasurable experiences.Ĭontrol: do you love control or love to lose control? This can make a huge difference in experiencing pleasure. Previous trauma: Some people associate sex with a negative experience they may have had in the past, which hinders or prevents them from enjoying sexual activity or reaching climax. For example, if one grew up believing that sex was a taboo, they may find it more difficult to climax than someone who grew up with a sex-positive attitude.
Sexuality: pleasure or no? The way one feels about sexuality can heavily influence their ability to receive pleasure.
A negative self-talk however can interfere with one’s ability to orgasm, as they become overwhelmed with aspects concerning themselves and their bodies. Inner voice: Do you have a positive or a negative self-talk? Positive self-talk can help induce feelings of relaxation, lack of judgement, and the ability to let go and simply enjoy pleasure. So, let’s start with the basics… What’s Influencing Your Orgasm? Some may want it or actively try to achieve it, but there are also some who simply cannot control it, and feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. I had yet to really consider the weird and wonderful effects of mental sexual stimulation so strong, it could induce pleasure anywhere, anytime.Īnd with that, I developed a more well-rounded idea about the ins and outs of experiencing an orgasm in public or private, easily and without actual genital stimulation. You see, I was going to mention all of the ways one might be able to climax in public or private, anywhere, anytime with the help of physical stimulation. “What great timing,” I thought, just in time to write this article. Green with envy, I was made even more aware of just how powerful the mind really is. Interestingly, just this week one of my girlfriends admitted that she was able to orgasm without touching herself whilst reading erotica.